Battle of The Experts

Family law property and support cases ought to be easy to resolve in theory. There are set rules regarding property division and equalization schemes in each province. The use of Child Support Guidelines and Spousal Support Advisory Guidelines are designed to provide greater predictability of results, thus encouraging early settlement.

Theory and practice are not always the same. Litigants in family law disputes are often self-employed and may hold shares in private corporations. They may be paid through corporations in different ways, such as by dividends, salary, bonuses, consulting income, etc.

Others may have employment incentives such as options or deferred profit-sharing that must be taken into account for property division and income for support.

Courts in family law matters are increasingly reliant on expert opinions regarding the value of business interests and the calculation of income for support. Sometimes parties jointly retain a valuator to save on the substantial costs involved in hiring a professional and in order to encourage resolution out of court. However, the most disputed cases that make it to trial usually have two experts involved, each with different opinions as to values.

Experts in Ontario (and other provinces) are not supposed to be “hired guns” doing the litigation bidding of the party who hired them. They are required to sign an Acknowledgment of Expert’s Duty stating that they provide opinion evidence that is fair, objective and non-partisan and that their duty to the court overrides their duty to the individual party.

The recent Saskatchewan Court of Appeal case of Frondall v. Frondall 2020 SKCA 135 provides clarification on two points of interest regarding the use of expert opinions in family law matters:

  1. How does the court treat expert opinion that is not independent and is aligned with the position of the party who retained the expert?
  2. What is the standard of review for the Court of Appeal regarding expert opinion, and what amount of deference is given to the trial judge’s findings regarding the use and application of expert evidence?

A brief summary of the facts of this case are as follows. The parties were involved in a long-term marriage. On separation, it was necessary to value the husband’s shares in the family holding company, Doug Frondall Group of Companies (DFGC) and to determine income available for spousal support to the wife.

Both parties provided expert opinions to the court. The wife hired “T” who certified as per the court rules that his evidence was “objective, non-partisan, and that he was aware that his duty was to the Court.”

The husband’s expert was “W.” W did not certify that his report was independent. He was upfront that his testimony and report were advisory in nature, and that the methodology used in the reports primarily related to mathematical calculations provided by the husband.

W stated that “the calculation of the value and comments in the following advisory report do not constitute our independent calculation with respect to the Fair Market Value of the shares in the Company” (emphasis added). W and the husband were friends, former business partners and at the time of trial enjoyed a work relationship. The trial judge observed that a reasonable person may detect a “whiff of potential bias” regarding W’s expert opinion.

W’s opinion should not have been admitted at trial. There are four requirements for the admission of expert evidence, according to R. v. Monahan [1994] 2 S.C.R. 9. These are: a properly qualified expert (which includes the expert being independent), relevance, necessity and the absence of an exclusionary rule. Once the four requirements are established, the trier of fact must go to on to the second gate-keeping step and balance the “potential risks and benefits of admitting the evidence.”

Counsel for the wife did not object to the opinion evidence of W being admitted at trial despite its lack of independence. Neither counsel advised the trial judge of W’s failure to sign the Acknowledgment of Expert’s Duty. Instead, counsel for the wife challenged the independence of W’s opinion evidence during cross-examination, after his expert opinion was already admitted as evidence at trial.

The trial judge was left to wonder what use he could make of W’s opinion. The evidence was already admitted into the court record on consent, closing arguments were made based on the expert opinions, but the opinion was clearly flawed as lacking independence.

The trial judge opted for a balanced approach when considering the utility of W’s opinion. The trial judge opted to disregard W’s opinions if based solely or primarily on assumptions or opinions that the husband provided to him. The trial judge considered parts of W’s opinion when the valuation methodologies relied upon by W were sanctioned by T, the wife’s expert. In the grey areas in between, where there was some but not complete agreement on the valuation method relied on by the two experts, the trial judge gave lesser weight to W’s opinion than to T’s.

The husband appealed the trial judge’s decision regarding the reliance to be placed on W’s opinion. He argued that as the wife did not object to the opinion evidence at the admissibility stage, she had no right to challenge or contest the evidence or its weight during the trial. The husband further argued that the trial judge should not have provided greater weight to T’s opinion to that of W’s, as both T and W were qualified experts and had access to the same documents and information.

The Saskatchewan Court of Appeal rejected the husband’s arguments. According to the court, the admissibility of an expert’s opinion is a question of law, and absent an error in principle, deference is owed to the trial judge in relation to their decision to admit or reject expert evidence, or in this case, to admit or reject certain parts of the opinion evidence.

Further, the result of the valuation exercise is a question of fact. Where a decision on value is premised on expert evidence of one qualified expert over another, the related findings of fact are accorded deference on appeal.

In short, once the trial judge determines that some or all of an expert opinion is admissible, it is open for the trial judge to prefer the evidence of certain experts over others and place more weight on some parts of the opinion evidence than others.

The court in Frondall relied on both expert opinions to a certain degree in reaching its decision, and in some instances actually preferred the valuation results provided by W over those provided by T. Notwithstanding, the lack of an independent valuation and limited use made of W’s expert opinion at trial clearly prejudiced the husband’s position regarding the valuations of his shares and income.

The lesson learned from Frondall is that in high stakes family law litigation, one should never prejudice themselves by compromising on the independence of their expert. It is best to retain a qualified, arm’s length expert than to rely on the assistance of one’s own accountant and business associates in the determination of values.

The Top Eight Best and Worst Features of Our Family Court System

family court house for practice of family law

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of
wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it
was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the
season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of
despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us…

Charles Dickens, Tale of Two Cities (1859)

Like Dickens’ epic story, present day family law practice involves Light and Dark, wisdom and foolishness, best and worst. Specifically, one can argue that the unification of the Family Court of the Superior Court of Justice combined with the introduction of the Family Law Rules[1] and Child Support Guidelines[2] all highlight the increasing attention to the importance of consistency and uniformity in family law. On the whole this has led to increasing specialization on the part of the bench and bar which, in theory, should lead to better service to the end user client. Ironically, a contrary argument can also be made that these very things have made it harder for lawyers, the prime provider of client services in the family law regime, to do just that. This paper attempts to draw attention to the very good and the very bad of our present day family court system, both the Light and the Dark, the wise and the foolish, in the hopes that we can make the bad good and the good better for users to come.[3]

The Worst

1. Inconsistency Between Courts re: Access to Justice

One of the worst features of our present day family court system is the difference between courts in terms of being able to get in front of a judge and obtain a meaningful order. The divergence across the Greater Toronto area is, to put it mildly, staggering. For example, a father seeking an interim order for access in the Superior Court of Justice in Brampton can bring a motion at the time his Petition is issued and have it heard within a week. A father who instead files an Application in the Ontario Court of Justice down the hall must wait four months for his motion.

That this causes counsel to forum-shop should be of no surprise. That it should be remedied and avoided at all costs is trite to say – yet it continues. Why? It is submitted that the reasons have everything to do with the different rules of procedure in play. The Superior Court of Justice in Brampton follows the Rules of Civil Procedure[4] while the Ontario Court of Justice in Brampton follows the Family Law Rules. In general the former provide less obstacles to a party seeking a judge’s gavel while the latter seem to be very effective in gate-keeping the parties from seeing that gavel being used. The time has come to end this two-tiered system – all parties and counsel should be forced to play by one set of rules.

2. Delay to Access to Justice in Family Law Rules Courts

In general, most family law lawyers would agree that the Family Law Rules make it harder for counsel to obtain orders on motions. It is simply more time-consuming and expensive to get to a motion and, for those who have the resources and patience for both, by the time of the motion the outcome is often a foregone conclusion. However, even in courts which do not yet have the Family Law Rules, there is a big difference. In the Superior Court of Justice in Brampton, for example, which operates under the Ontario Rules of Civil Procedure there are no prerequisites to bringing a motion. In the Superior Court of Justice in Toronto, however, one must first attend a Family Information Session which is usually held four weeks after process has been issued and, absent an emergency, attend a case conference which is usually held two to three weeks thereafter. When one adds the necessary scheduling problems between counsel and the bench, these two steps wind up adding between sixty to ninety days to any litigant seeking a motion.

With the exception of the Superior Court of Justice in Milton and the Superior Court of Justice in Brampton, every court in the Greater Toronto area forbids the bringing of a motion prior to a case conference absent an emergency. This requirement, in and of itself, is not the problem. In almost every case, a prompt case conference presided over by an interested judge will result in, at the least a narrowing of issues, the setting of an agreed-upon timetable for the exchange of documents and an opinion on each party’s chances of obtaining what they want at trial. At the most, it results in a temporary order with a promise to return for a further conference, or sometimes even a final consent order. Further, one of the best features of a well-run case conference held at an early stage of the case is the perception both clients have at its conclusion that the system is fair. With respect, this is simply not the case at this time.

The problem stems from the fact that with the exception of the aforementioned two courts, it takes far too long for a case conference to be held. In most Toronto-area courts this year, a span of about six weeks passed between the time originating process was issued and a case conference was held. It is submitted that this long delay is caused by the high volume of cases and fewer judicial resources. This results in front office clerks being unable to give any early dates. Human nature being what it is, this often leads to one party using the delay to their advantage. A parent with an average case for sole custody, for example, is often able to improve their chances by leaving the matrimonial home with the children, filing an Application and proposing a structured access schedule. By the time of the case conference six weeks later only the exceptional case or judge would consider altering the arrangement. Similarly, a support payor who refuses to pay a reasonable amount of spousal support winds up being in an extremely favourable position because he knows the recipient needs money now and that the quantum paid will be a factor the judge will consider if and when a motion is held. Often, the result at the motion is identical to the quantum paid on a “without prejudice” basis.

The delays in the family court system are bad enough. What is worse is that courts, at least in the Greater Toronto area, seem to be unable or unwilling to ignore how delay impacts on a party’s perception that the system is fair to them. It is submitted that this perception strikes at the heart of the anger many counsel and clients presently feel in towards the family court system.

The more a client thinks the system is fair, the more they will buy into it and the quicker a long-lasting resolution will ensue. The less a client thinks the system is fair, the more he or she will try to do an end-run around any order or agreement, fail to comply with orders and, worst of all, spread the word to colleagues, friends and relatives that the lawyers and judges were not helpful and the system was unfair from the start.

Assuming that for the present no infusion of new judicial and/or administrative resources is on the horizon, it is submitted that one of the ways that the family court system can combat the effects of delay is to broaden the number of instances when a litigant can bring a motion prior to a case conference.

Under Rule 14(4.2) of the Family Law Rules, no motion may be served or heard before a case conference is held unless there is a “situation of urgency or hardship or a case conference is not required for some other reason in the interest of justice”. Although not defined in the Rules, “urgency” was defined in Hood v. Hood[5] as “pressing, demanding attention, imperative, crucial, serious, vital, primary and essential”. In terms of specific instances in family law where urgency exists, the court in Hood said urgency contemplates such issues such as abduction, threats of harm and dire financial circumstances. In Re Lafond and Lafond[6], the court considered the definition of “urgent” as set forth in rule 17 of the old Provincial Court (Family Division) rules and adopted the words of Morrison Prov. J. of the Provincial Court (Family Division) in Campbell v. Campbell[7] where he referred to the Concise Oxford Dictionary, 5th ed., which defines “urgent” as “pressing, calling for immediate action or attention”.

It is submitted that the Family Law Rules Committee should set out specific criteria for what constitutes a situation of urgency, hardship or “for some other reason in the interest of justice.” This writer submits that considering the delays in today’s current family court system climate, the following should be deemed to be “situation of urgency”:

(a) absent a situation involving violence or the reasonable likelihood that violence will ensue, one party leaves the matrimonial home with one or all of the children without a written agreement or court order authorizing them to do so;

(b) a party is without any financial resources and the other party is refusing to provide reasonable support; and

(c) there is a reasonable fear a party may try to leave the Province of Ontario with a child without a written agreement or court order authorizing them to do so.

Severe cost consequences should ensue for those who are found to have brought their motion without meeting one of the above factors.

It is submitted that “for some other reason in the interest of justice” should include, but not be limited to any instance where a case conference date is more than six weeks away from the date of issue. This would send a strong message to the powersthat-be that legislation cannot be passed without examining the context in which the legislation is being used and the effects which it brings on the end-users.

3. Orders at Conferences

The circumstances as to when it is appropriate to make an order at a conference,
particularly a case conference, need to be clarified. Under Rule 3.02 of the Toronto
Family Case Management Rules which govern court practice at 393 University[8], at a case conference a judge may make a procedural order or an order for interim relief “where appropriate”. Similarly, provided “notice” has been served and “if it is appropriate”, under Rule 17(8) of the Family Law Rules a judge may make a temporary or final order at a case conference, settlement conference or trial management conference.Notwithstanding the above rules which clearly contemplate an interim order for substantive relief being made at a case conference, almost rarely will a judge at a case conference make a substantive order of any kind unless it is on consent. With respect, this is very damaging to the integrity of the family court system, especially when one realizes that prior to appearing at the conference the following have usually taken place:

(a) usually at least six weeks has passed from the time originating process was issued;

(b) each party has met with his or counsel at least three times;

(c) negotiations of some sort have usually taken place between counsel, either by letter, phone or four-way meeting;

(d) an Application, Statement of Claim, Petition, Answer and Counterpetition and sometimes Reply has been drafted, served and filed;

(e) a Financial Statement with three years of income tax returns and paystubs have been served and filed;

(f) some disclosure has usually been exchanged;

(g) attendance at a Family Information Session has been complied with (if the case is at 393 University);

(h) Case Conference Briefs have usually been prepared, served and filed;

(i) the parties have usually met at court to once again try and resolve all outstanding issues on an interim basis; and

(j) each party has spent at least $1,500.00.

This writer submits that when all of the above factors are taken into consideration, failing to make an order for interim relief often, but not always, has the following effects:

(a) it severely impairs, if not effectively destroys one party’s case on a particular issue;

(b) it enables the more well-heeled party to perpetuate an unfair advantage over the other;

(c) it causes further frustration to both parties and counsel;

(d) it causes both parties to spend further sums of money;

(e) it can lead to one party to feel they have no choice but to sign a temporary consent which, given the chance, they would otherwise not; and

(f) it perpetuates the stigma that the family court system is not responsive to their needs, expensive and time-consuming.

As a solution to this continuing problems, this writer encourages counsel to rely on the provision in Rule 17(8)(b) which clearly confirms that as long as “notice” has been served, the court may make a temporary or final order. Whether notice is a letter, a notice of motion or an affidavit is not clear and remains to be seen. What is clear however, is that continuing refusal on the part of the judiciary to make substantive orders at case conferences, particularly on the issues of temporary access and child support, is contrary to the spirit of the Primary Objective which requires the court to, among other things, help the parties settle all or part of their case, control the progress of the case, identify issues and dispose of those issues that do not need a full investigation and trial.[9]

4. Children’s Lawyer and Newmarket Court

As at the time of writing this paper, a titanic battle is being played out in Newmarket court over the order appointing the Office of the Children’s Lawyer. Simply put, the bench in Newmarket is refusing to execute orders appointing the Office of the Children’s Lawyer because the order contains provisions authorizing the disclosure of information on clients by the police. This writer knows of no steps being taken by either the bench or the Children’s Lawyer administration to resolve this problem, leaving counsel to struggle with the option of starting up a new case in a different court to obtain the order, agreeing to a private assessor on their own or simply abandoning the attempt to appoint a lawyer and bringing a motion for interim relief without the assistance of that office. It may be that negotiations are ongoing “behind the scenes”. If that is the case, let us hope this problem is resolved quickly for its perpetuation severely undermines the integrity of the family court system and its ability to provide users with swift and fair justice. If it is not the case, the government should become involved forthwith to assist the parties to resolve the issue as none of the alternatives is fair to litigants or counsel.

5. Too Much Paper

Courts which strongly adhere to the provisions of the Family Law Rules are becoming far too cumbersome in which to carry on a case and expensive for most litigants to afford. One of the principal reasons this is so is that these courts, specifically, Brampton, Newmarket and Oshawa, are rigidly adhering to rules which require too much unnecessary paper to be filed, specifically:

(a) an Affidavit confirming there have been no major changes to a party’s Financial Statement which is more than thirty days old, failing which a new Financial Statement must be served and filed[10];

(b) complete income tax returns to be attached to a party’s Financial Statement[11];

(d) that a Case Conference Brief be filed without exception[12]; and

(e) the simple length of the Financial Statement which many counsel find onerous and unnecessary.

The result of the above is that a party’s legal bill is often far greater than it needs to be. It also clutters up the Continuing Record to the point where by the time of the case conference three volumes have already been filed – all before a single order has been made.

Not all courts are this rigid. Judges in the Ontario Court of Justice, specifically in North York and Scarborough, regularly tell counsel whether or not a brief will be required for the next step which is very much appreciated. They will also allow income tax summaries if the complete return is not available. A brief will not be refused for filing because a two-page affidavit detailing changes to one’s Financial Statement is not attached. This approach, it is submitted, is more consistent with requirement that cases must be dealt with “justly”, which the Family Law Rules defines as ensuring the procedure is fair to all parties, saving expense and time and dealing with the case in ways that are appropriate to its importance and complexity.[13]

Further, creating unnecessary costs is not the exclusive domain of courts applying the Family Law Rules. Counsel who practise in the Superior Court of Justice in Toronto regularly cringe at having to prepare a factum for every motion. As well they should. Absent a complicated motion a factum will be rarely helpful. Counsel know this and deal with it by trying to file late or putting in only minimal effort into its drafting. This writer suggests that a better approach is for the case conference judge to endorse on the case conference record whether or not facta will be required. It is further suggested that counsel should be consulted by the case conference judge as to whether facta would be helpful before making their decision.

6. Standard Track Cases, Fast Track Cases and the Dreaded First Appearance

A creation of Rule 40 of the Family Law Rules, standard track cases are cases involving property or divorce claims. Fast track cases, defined in Rule 39, are cases involving neither. The irony is that in practice, fast track cases move at a much slower case than standard track cases. This is because every fast track case involves an appearance before a First Appearance Clerk or FAC whose job it is to confirm that all necessary documents have been filed, refer the parties to sources of information about the court process, send the case to the judge if no answer has been filed and schedule the case for a case conference is an answer has been filed.[14]

A bigger waste of time has never before been invented. Why parties with counsel need a third party to inform them about alternatives to the court process when they have already searched for and found a lawyer, met with the lawyer at least a few times, discussed and confirmed their strategy, made a specific decision to commence and pay for litigation, is beyond this writer. It is even further beyond comprehension by this writer why it is only parties involved in non-property non-divorce cases who require this assistance.

It is acknowledged that sometimes a consent is the result of an attendance before the FAC which has the effect of reducing the court workload. Most often, however, it is not and the end result is a further delay of another four weeks before a case conference can be held. A contributing factor here is that in some courts counsel who ask to see the case management judge at a FAC are absolutely refused even when provided with a good reason. This is simply not fair and puts counsel in the very unfortunate position of having to explain to their clients why despite being in court they are not allowed into the courtroom.

The idea of a FAC is weak to begin with. When combined with an already extended time frame in which counsel can obtain an order on motion and the reluctance by most of the bench to make a meaningful order at a case conference, the FAC only further allows one party to use time and delay as a weapon over the other – something no one believes should be allowed to occur. The requirement of a FAC to be held in fast track cases should be deleted.

7. The Family Responsibility Office (“FRO”)

The biggest problem counsel face with the Family Responsibility Office is the time lag between the time the order is made and the time the support recipient receives her first cheque. This lag is totally unacceptable. Proof that it is totally unacceptable is that counsel regularly negotiate that for the first two months the payor will provide postdated cheques and the recipient’s counsel agrees to provide a receipt for same which the payor’s counsel then forwards to FRO so that his client is not faced with a double payment. And this only occurs when relations between counsel and the parties is sufficiently tame. Not uncommon is the case where if the support recipient fails to agree to opt out of the FRO regime, the payor refuses to provide even a month’s worth of cheques, knowing full well the recipient will struggle mightily to make ends meet until FRO gets around to enforcing the order.

Another problem is that parties are unable to rely on receiving their cheques from FRO on a specific date. Cheques come when they come which is hard to accept if you require that cheque to make a rent payment due on the first of the month. More funds need to be devoted to FRO so they can ensure more hands are processing more cheques more quickly with the goal of getting the support cheques to recipients no more than one week after the support is due.

8. Enforcement of Custody/Access and Restraining Orders

One of the worst parts of being a family law lawyer is having to tell clients that their custody or access order is not sufficient to retrieve a child from a withholding parent or enable them to force a refusing parent to comply with visitation. Requiring parties to first obtain a “police assistance” clause, whether it be for a custody order, access order or even a restraining order[15], should not be necessary. Any clearly defined order for custody, access or a restraining order should be respected and enforced by the authorities as such. In the absence of a change on the part of police authorities who are almost always unwilling to enforce an order without such a clause, it is suggested that much like the FRO enforcement clause must be inserted into every support order, every custody/access/restraining order should contain a police assistance clause.

The Best

1. Real Case Management

Most courts in the Greater Toronto Area have case management rules. For those courts using the Family Law Rules, “case management” is where the same judge supervises its progress, schedules conducts all conferences and hears all motions.[16] The Superior Court of Justice in Toronto also has case management rules but in reality there is nothing about present day practice in that court that is case managed. The Superior Court of Justice in Milton and Brampton have no case management rules and follow the Rules of Civil Procedure.

Real case management is highly effective. It provides for consistency of rulings within a case, enables the parties and counsel to predict what the judge may or may not do at the next stage of a case, allows for the judge to become very familiar with the parties and counsel and minimizes the ability of counsel to judge-shop or seek adjournments when rotating judges are assigned not to their liking.

Some courts are more case managed than others. Scarborough court, Jarvis court and North York are by far the most case managed courts in the Greater Toronto area. Barring illness, these courts have been successful in ensuring that each case, from start to finish, has the same judge. The results are excellent and counsel in general seem to appreciate the consistency. Newmarket, Oshawa and Brampton are also case managed courts although less so and, frustratingly, it seems as though whenever you want your case management judge to deal with the case that day, a different judge is assigned.

2. Duty Counsel

The family court system would certainly crumble were it not for the excellent work duty counsel provide. Once used only in the Ontario Court of Justice, now each court in the Greater Toronto area is well-stacked with duty counsel. In some courts, they are so well provided for, there are separate duty counsel for child protection matters, first appearances and motions. The benefits of having more rather than less duty counsel are obvious but still worth highlighting:

(a) as a large part of their job involves educating non-represented litigants, they afford the judge more time to judge and less time spent informing;

(b) when non-represented litigants have counsel, even if only for the day, the chances of a consent being reached outside the courtroom are much greater. This then means courtroom resources can be used more effectively for truly contested motions or conferences;

(c) when a consent cannot be reached, they are very effective in narrowing the issues before the court which saves further courtroom time; and

(d) they are usually very familiar with each judge’s idiosyncracies and tendencies and imparting this knowledge to the non-represented litigant and opposing counsel also increase the likelihood of a consent.

3. Advice Counsel

A recent development in most courts, advice counsel are extremely helpful in assisting non-represented litigants complete their paperwork and informing them of what documents they require and what key facts they need to include. As the advent of the Family Law Rules has resulted in more paperwork and longer lines at the front counter, the job of helping litigants with these tasks has quite rightly been shifted to lawyers qualified to provide advice. Like Duty Counsel, one of the chief benefits of advice counsel is they are often aware, and can impart to litigants, a judge’s tendencies and demands.

4. The Dispute Resolution Officer (DRO) Program

The brainchild of Ross Davis, the DRO program at the Superior Court of Justice in Toronto continues to provide excellent legal services to users at no cost. A mandatory step for any litigant, represented or not, who wishes to change an existing support or custody/access order, the DRO program is informal, easy to use and extremely effective in narrowing issues in dispute, providing for the timely exchange of documents, setting timetables where the case cannot be settled and, best of all, providing less experienced counsel hear the opinions and comments of tried and true practitioners, each of whom has at least ten years experience in family law. The program was so popular it was copied in Scarborough where the Family Law Referee program was implemented a few years ago.

5. Trial Co-Ordinators in the Ontario Courts of Justice in Toronto

The trial co-ordinators in the Ontario Courts of Justice in Toronto are definitely one of the shining stars of our family court system. Cynthia Campoli in Scarborough, Amit Thakore at Jarvis court and Josh Harroch in North York are all to be commended for making the stress of family law litigation easier on all counsel. Specifically, they each will regularly do the following even though a strict reading of their job description does not require them to:

(a) answer questions from counsel on the phone about which forms to use when;

(b) inform counsel on the phone of whether or not their matter is on the list;

(c) fax endorsements to counsel upon request;

(d) accept Form 14B motions by fax and forward them to the judge;

(e) inform counsel of when reasons for judgment will be ready;

(f) provide counsel with information as to certain preferences of the judges in regards to procedure and forms; and

(g) provide counsel with information about available dates and times.

Each of the above on its own may not appear to be important or significant. Taken as a collective, however, it makes life much easier for lawyers. This is not to say there are no helpful staff in other courts; there are. The problem is that for whatever reason, they are not as accessible to the public. Perhaps it is due to the structure of the staffing or the volume of cases in those courts. The difference, however, is significant and worth mentioning.

6. The Family Law Rules

While it is the norm to harp on the effect the Family Law Rules have had on hampering counsel from helping their clients, it would be unfair not to mention some of the benefits the Rules have brought. The drafters of the Rules must be commended for providing far more certainty than existed before about the following issues: where a case starts and is to be heard (Rule 5), financial statements (Rule 13), motions to change an order or agreement (Rule 15), summary judgment (Rule 16), offers to settle (Rule 18), document disclosure (Rule 19) and trial records (Rule 23). On the whole, there is far more structure and order to how a case proceeds than before their passage. Unlike in the past, counsel and parties now expect that their case will follow the now-familiar pattern of First Appearance (in fast track cases only), case conference, motion, settlement conference and trial. And while there are and will always be room for improvement, on the whole the concept of a unique set of rules for family law proceedings is, it is submitted, a good idea that all have come to accept.

7. Judges Who Get Through to the Client

Like clients and lawyers, judges differ in personality and manner. What is consistent between judges, is that those who are able to, for lack of a better term “get through” to clients, are able to help them resolve cases faster than those that do not. What does “get through” mean? It is not easy to define but can be summarized as ensuring that no matter how sophisticated the client is, he or she leaves the courtroom with a solid understanding of what was done or recommended and why. Sometimes this involves a careful choice of wordsand diplomatic demeanour; other times the use of plain, blunt no-holds barred language works best. Whatever the manner, judges who listen and are keen to transmit their opinions, reasons and experience to the clients are a priceless commodity which should not go overlooked. They should be, and for the most part are, much more than decision-makers. They can, and largely do, shape clients’ experiences for the better and help ease them in the transition from an intact family to separate households.

8. The Family Law Bar

It has been this writer’s experience that one of the best things about being a family law lawyer is that no matter what the question is, another lawyer’s expertise is only a phone call away. Whether the query be ethical, legal or procedural, the family law bar is, for the most part, comprised of friendly practitioners who are always willing to help each other when asked or offer guidance and practice tips. So much of what we do as family law lawyers involves judgment, judgment about personalities, judgment about interpretation of law and procedure, that only with experience comes true knowledge.


[1] Family Law Rules (Superior Court of Justice and Ontario Court of Justice) made under the Courts of Justice Act, O. Reg. 114/99, as amend
[2] Regulations Establishing Federal Child Support Guidelines, SOR/97-175, as amended.
[3] “family court system” includes, for purposes of this paper, the Ontario Court of Justice, Superior Court of Justice and Family Court of the Superior Court of Justice
[4] Rules of Civil Procedure, R.R.O. 1990, Reg. 194.
[5] Hood v. Hood 2001 CarswellOnt 2613 (Ont. S.C.J.).
[6] (1979), 23 O.R. (2d) 437 (Ont. Co. Ct.).
[7] (1978), 2 R.F.L. (2d) 249.
[8] The Family Case Management Rules for the Superior Court of justice in Toronto, O.Reg. 655/00, as amended (renewed until December 31, 2002).
[9] Rule 2(5), Family Law Rules.
[10] Rules 13(12) and 13(12.1), Family Law Rules.
[11] Rule 13(7), Family Law Rules.
[12] Rule 17(13), Family Law Rules.
[13] Rule 2(3), Family Law Rules.
[14] Rule 39(5), Family Law Rules.
[15] The type of restraining order contemplated here is what is often termed a specific restraining order, namely, one which contains specific provisions prohibiting a party from coming within a certain distance of the other.
[16] Rule 39(9), Family Law Rules.

Divorce, Your Best Revenge

a couple speaking with a divorce lawyer

It’s all about the money!

I know this is a controversial statement. For every couple, divorce is emotionally wrenching as one or both partners crave revenge. Too many divorces are about revenge and are fueled by emotion. For me, this is wrong, wrong, wrong! It’s actually all about money. And this money is the most important money in the world for it is yours!

So who am I to make this bold statement? I am a real estate appraiser and arbitrator/mediator and I bear scars from my own divorce. Over 40 years I have probably seen and heard it all. I’ve been involved in thousands of divorces, and, althrough I personally no longer appraise the residential part of divorce actions, I still supervise senior staff who do. I have watched as reasonably intelligent people fight obsessively to the end to get back at their spouse. In the end – it was not worth it.

Look again at what I just said: it was not worth it!

Let’s face it, divorce can be a nasty part of one’s road through life. You probably feel hurt, cheated, angry and want to get back at your spouse. Your reasons may be very valid, but keep one thing in mind – it should not be about emotion, it should be about money!

in a messy divorce, only the professionals make money. Lawyers, Realtors and appraisers all benefit from your emotion. But get this into your head; right now it is your money. If you go for revenge, it will be theirs. You have a choice, you can fight on obsessively, making the professionals rich and yourself poor or you can cut it out now and put your money where it belongs – in your pocket.

I’m sure you’ve heard a lot of lawyer jokes, but having serviced the legal profession since 1968, I have a great deal of respect for lawyers who are tops in their field. The real legal professionals get frustrated with clients who want their day in court, because these clients will never be happy with the result and never get everything they want. For them, the divorce case drives their lives, and this drives the lawyers crazy putting up with constant phone calls on minor issues. All to get revenge.

I say the best revenge in the world is to live well – financially, emotionally, physically, and spiritually. If you use the system to get your revenge, you will suffer in all fronts. Unless you are one of the privileged, you will have to downgrade your way of life and living conditions. If you have kids, they will have to deal with months and maybe years of bitterness. When it is all over both of you will have lost. The professionals will have won.

There must be a better way.

I say the best way is to take a deep breath, think it out in terms of money and leave the emotions out of the process. The end will come whether you fight it or ease the process along, but the end will come. You will get your divorce or separation agreement. If you work through your divorce lawyer to set out a settlement and your spouse does the same, you can mediate or arbitrate from there. You save time, and time in a legal process equates to a lot of dollars in your pocket.

An example: Want to hang on the house? Step away from the emotion and look at it this way. Ultimately the house will be sold. In the meantime, costs will increase and prices may drop. Why not maximize your return, sell and sell quickly with minimal fuss. Don’t use your biggest investment to get even with each other. Treat the house for what is, your largest financial source. No equity? Then cut the loss as quickly as possible, don’t drag it out while interest and costs increase.

Am I advocating giving in? Absolutely not! What I am advocating is leaving the emotion behind. And if you’re ready to do this but your spouse is not, why not start the process by sending him or her this article?

I want you to do a smell test. Call a few friends or family members who have gone through a messy divorce. Ask them point blank: if they had the benefit of hindsight, would they have preferred to settle the whole thing quickly or were they satisfied with their process and the time it took? I’ll bet 90 percent will say they lost the long run because they couldn’t take the emotion out of the process.

In my own divorce, my wife and I focused on the love we had for our children. We acknowledged each other as loving and caring parents. We were very lucky: respect for each other on that level was never an issue although I know that is not always the case.

We both knew the ramifications of fighting and we both resolved to instruct our lawyers to work together on a mutually agreed upon settlement. We had some complex issues and had to retain a knowledgeable accountant, which was costly, but in the end we each saved a small fortune. Even more important, we are not better friends than we were when we were husband and wife. And best of all, the kids did not have to deal with the bitterness taht is common in divorce.

So what are the issues? Your spouse cheated on your, ruined you financially, found a younger partner, hit you, is a couch potato, has bad habits, is into drugs? Get your revenge the smart way: get beyond the issue and live well. Give yourself a reality check – you are better off without them. Now think of yourself. Think of the money.

One last thing – why did I write this? Because I am tired, absolutely tired, of the nightmare I, as a professional and a divorced person, have seen people go through. If I only help one person come out of this process further ahead, it was worth doing.

Money in your pocket or revenge? The choice is yours.

Grey Divorces: The Financial Impact Of Divorcing Later In Life

a couple sit facing opposite directions after divorce

Now that your children are grown and have moved out, you’re probably thinking about how you’re going to enjoy the next stage of your life. For some married couples, they may decide they want to enter their golden years without their current partners.

Also known as a “grey divorce”, ending a marriage after the age of 60 has become a noticeable trend amongst the boomer generation. As reported by Advisor.ca, the number of seniors filing for divorce has increased significantly over the last few years, although statistics for divorces overall appeared to be down.

How Do Retirement Funds Affect Spousal Support?

The challenge with divorcing later in life is that it poses significant risks to a person’s financial stability during retirement. In many cases, couples are no longer earning an income past age 65. This means that both parties in the relationship are on equal grounds when it comes to earning ability as they are relying on their retirement funds.

With no one being the “higher earner” in this situation, the shared wealth would essentially be divided equally between them, barring any excluded items, such as inheritances. Federal spousal support guidelines would only apply if one of the parties was still earning an income.

What If One Of Us Is Still Working?

Some people stop working at different ages in life, which means that one partner may still be earning an income while the other is not when they decide to divorce. In these scenarios, it is more complex to determine a fair and reasonable equalization payment.

  • Would a pension still be considered family property, or a source of income for the non-working spouse?
  • How would pensions and other retirement savings be valued and then equalized between spouses when one person is still employed?
  • Would the federal spousal support guidelines still apply?

For these situations, consultations with legal and financial professionals can shed more light on the value of your assets, how they should be divided, and determining your legal rights and obligations.

Duration Of Spousal Support Payments For Older Individuals

According to the federal spousal support advisory guidelines, there is no end date for spousal support for couples who have been married for longer than 20 years. If a payor wants to cease paying spousal support into retirement, then he or she would have to prove a significant change in circumstances to change the original spousal support order.

If you remarry, and then divorce again at an older age, the rules for the duration of spousal support payments are different than for couples who divorce earlier in life. The government realizes that, as couples get older, there’s not just the length of the marriage to consider when determining eligibility for spousal support. The age of the individuals, proximity to the age of retirement, and their financial stability post age 65 should also be considered.

Grey Divorces: The Bottom Line

Whether you are paying spousal support into retirement, or must divide your retirement funds in a divorce settlement, you may need to revaluate your retirement plans. Where you were going to live, places you were going to travel, or things you intended to purchase may change if your financial situation is impacted post-divorce.